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The Trauma of an Affair: Telling the Story
In my last blog, I explored the stages of restorative couples therapy after the trauma of an affair and the importance of establishing...
Jul 24, 2023


The Power of Deception: How Lying Helped Us Survive Trauma
Lying is a typical response to trauma. It may be seen as an act of self-preservation, allowing us to cope with the pain and fear of...
Jul 24, 2023


Finding Strength in Uncertainty: The Power of Therapy
Does uncertainty cause an allergic reaction within you? Being intolerant of uncertainty can cause problems since it leads to a lot of...
Jul 22, 2023


Online Counselling Services Now Available
On March 20, 2020, the Ontario College of Social Workers and Social Service Workers “strongly recommended” that all non-essential social...
Jul 21, 2023


Big News Announcement - We're Expanding!
Expanding Our Therapy Team and Services: A Commitment to Holistic Well-being In today's fast-paced world, mental health issues have...
Jul 21, 2023


What is Brainspotting?
“Where you look affects how you feel…” - Dr. David Grand At Ian Robertson Therapy & Counselling, we are happy to announce that we now...
Oct 20, 2022


What is Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP)?
“If you want to improve the world, start by making people feel safe.” — Dr. Stephen Porges The Safe and Sound Protocol is a non-invasive...
Oct 13, 2022


4 Things Nurses Should Know When Working with Trauma
Nurses are constantly challenged, especially through these difficult times of a pandemic with what they experience and the significant...
Nov 29, 2021


You Need to Dig Deep Before You Can Grow
"To live oneself means: to be one’s own task. Never say that it is a pleasure to be oneself. It will be no joy but a long suffering,...
Oct 19, 2021


Are You a Giver or a Taker? Read This to Find Out
It's a common question that is asked - "are you a Giver or Taker?" It may seem like an easy question to answer but it could be more...
Sep 27, 2021


The Survival Response of "Fawners" (People-Pleasers)
So what is the Fawning effect? The 'Fawning' effect can best be described as an instinctual response associated with the need to avoid as...
Sep 9, 2021


Addictions as a Way to Manage Past Trauma
The inner effects of addictive behaviours cause tremendous suffering. Knowing the science behind addiction can help those addicted to...
Apr 4, 2021


The "Risks" of Mental Health Labels in Building Resiliency
Recently I have been reflecting deeper as to how we are moving in the direction of de-stigmatizing mental health with our communities and...
Mar 28, 2021


What Causes Workplace Bullying? 'Triangulation'
Have you ever been in a workplace environment, maybe your morning meeting, and you see your colleagues start to make awkward sighs or...
Mar 9, 2021


High-Conflict Divorces: Are You Building a Wall or a Foundation?
When parents separate, the higher the conflict goes, the more children are emotionally affected. Children are forced into having to...
Feb 18, 2021


Knowledge is Power, But Execution Leads to ‘Nuclear’ Change
Have you ever heard 'I know this and it didn't work' or 'I've tried this and nothing changed?’ In this current climate of so many...
Feb 6, 2021


My partner's relationship with their phone is ruining our relationship
Ok, let's start with the facts; Cell phones are addictive. Every time you hear 'ping' - notification flash, ding and so many other sounds...
Jan 21, 2021


Is My Relationship Causing My Unhappiness or Am I Depressed?
Our intimate relationships can have a direct and profound impact on our mood. We feel our partners even when our brain is not even aware....
Dec 30, 2020


How Hating Your Job Can Affect Your Mental Health (and How To Get 'Unstuck' From Your Situation)
For many, work plays a critical role in our life. This role can be either positive, meaningful and connected or negative, lacking meaning...
Dec 30, 2020


Is 'Chemical Imbalance' a Real Thing?
Mental health related issues seem to be increasing throughout the world at an alarming rate. What seems to still drive the theory of...
Dec 1, 2020
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